But unfortunately, this is not the case for hundreds of couples worldwide.
The fact remains that hearts are breaking all over and people need to know how to get their ex back.
This is not really impossible because all you need to know is the right steps to take which will ensure your ex's return.
Your ex should see you change.
Your ex most probably blames you for the breakup and you too are blaming him/her.
If you had to ask your ex "WHY?" then he/she would probably have a list of things that he/she finds wrong in you.
So, the first thing you should do is to have a "reality check" that will enable you to see your faults clearly and then do all you can to change that.
Bring back the excitement.
Every time your ex gets to see you, it should be a time when he/she finds conflicting emotions running through him.
A superb well kept body, fabulous style and clothes, an air of confidence and most importantly the air of exuberance that you had when you first met should knock him/her backwards! Be casual and friendly.
Give your ex the opportunity to meet, talk and be with this new you! Be careful not to show any hurt feelings or anger towards your ex.
Be magnanimous and forgiving.
Show your ex that you have come a long way and are more mature.
Throw subtle hints at him/her.
Wearing a particular color or dressing in a particular way that you know will excite your ex and bring back past memories is a way to rekindle the passion you felt for each other.
You could engineer meetings and "double dates" that would drive your ex to jealousy to think of you in someone else's arms.
Remember important dates like your anniversary, his/her birthday etc and call him/her.
Your ex is bound to reciprocate.