The idea is that this conditions him to climax as quickly as possible. However, survey and studies have shown that many men with premature ejaculation did not rush early sexual experiences €" though others say they did.
In all, there is some level of agreement that anxiety is responsible for some cases of premature ejaculation. For example, if a man is put (or puts himself under) pressure to perform, then he becomes nervous and when he becomes nervous, the chances that he would ejaculate before his partner increases.
In addition, each time he fail to prolong ejaculation, an €anxious' lover gets deeper into the realm of self-doubt and continue to fail. Anxiety over other issue beside sex can also lead to premature ejaculation.
Such issues could include, but are not limited to financial matters, slightly depression, lack of confidence, unrealistic sexual expectations (like when a man wanted to replicate what he saw on a pornography movies) lack of good communication, conflict, guilt and others. Anxiety and the pressure to perform is the reason some men takes alcohol before sex. However, this is a huge risk.
An interesting article on the British Broadcasting Corporation's Sex and Sexual Health website says some men premature ejaculation problem results from their inability to recognize what therapists call the €point of inevitability€ €" a sensation that occurs just a few moments before ejaculation. Whatever the original cause, the body gets used to responding quickly and rapid ejaculation becomes the norm.
Over excitement is another factor that can be responsible for premature ejaculation. When a man is overly exited before sex, his orgasm could go on auto drive, making the decision to ejaculate on its own.
Besides expert says, although there are no conclusive proof yet, that a number of biological factors can also induce premature ejaculation. These include abnormal hormone levels, abnormal level of brain chemical called neurotransmitters, abnormal reflect activity of ejaculatory system, some thyroid problems, inflammation, unary tract or prostate infection.
Others include multiple sclerosis, extreme sensitive in the penis, injury to the nerve and other neurological problems.
Some scientists and researchers have also made claim that premature ejaculation can be inherited. The duo of Dr. David Delvin, a British General Practitioner and a psychotherapist, Christine Webber, who conducted a survey on the matter, discovered this in some cases. €Some men seem to be highly triggered right from the start of their sex lives, and we encountered instances where their father is pretty much the same.
Therefore we feel that the tendency to reach orgasm quickly may often be inherited that learned.
What all this pieces of information have shown is that premature ejaculation can be attributed to both psychological and biological factors. However, whatever the cause is there are solutions.
Many men have solved this problem clinically, either by simple exercises or by introducing changes to their behavioral patterns.
I am not often surprise that some of the people who seek solution to premature ejaculation often ask for the name of the drug they can take.
Are there drugs for premature ejaculation?
Yes, there are some.
Can I vouch for them?
No, I will not do these for two reasons;
One, when it comes to drugs for sexual enhancement or improvement, I am very reluctant to offer advice.
Sex, I believe is a man's most natural activity and should be kept as such.
Two, the proven side effect of using these drugs in all cases, outweigh the advantages.
For example, one of the most popular is a group of an aesthetic gel that deadens or dulls the sensitive of the penis, to ensure that it take a while before a man comes. While these gel works, the problem is that it renders a woman's sensitivity dull. Apart from the lost of feeling, it has also known to cause skin lashes, redness and soreness.
What doctors do, especially in Europe and North America is to treat premature ejaculation with anti- depressants. Nevertheless, this practice, although common here, is dangerous because some these drugs cause psychiatric problem, skin diseases and changes in body weight.
In fact, expert have express doubt that dapoxetine, a new drug that has been touted as the wonder drug that could be used to treat premature ejaculation, will be approved by US authorities.
This is because it has been discovered to expose those who tested it to psychiatric problems, skin reactions, and increase in body weight, lower sex drive, nausea, headache, stomach upset and weakness.
I do not know much about herbal drug that can be used for this condition, but some of the herbal treatments available are stimulants. As a result, they may have undesirable side effects, and may even be dangerous for old men.