While a difficult breakup may make it harder to rekindle the flame between you and your ex it does not make it impossible.
At one point you both cared about each other or there would never have been a breakup.
Take the time to read these four ways on how to get your ex back even in a hopeless situation and you will finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Revise your relationship First off, you need to take a step back to reevaluate what makes you think getting your ex back is hopeless.
Was your breakup particularly bad, or was there fundamentally something wrong with your relationship? You have to identify what went wrong in your relationship and demonstrate to your ex that you have fixed this quality in other aspects of your life or you will never win him or her back.
Head to the family Given that you have coined your relationship 'hopeless' it is not likely that you can walk up to your ex and talk some sense into him or her.
However, your ex's family can say whatever they like.
Stay on good terms with the family and they will nag your ex for you which will be the starting nudge that sends them back in your direction! Stay calm and collected After a breakup you are likely to be in a lot of pain, but it is important that you are the only who knows this fact.
It is important that you always appear calm and collected because your ex is watching through the eye's of mutual friends.
Everything you say or do will get back to them, so make sure to keep it positive! Invoke jealousy Finally, the one thing that almost always works to get your ex to notice you is flirting.
Sure, they told you that they no longer wanted you, but this does not mean they want to watch you with someone else either! Get them to see green and they will also see you in a completely different light!