In some cases, you may have seen it coming or suspected your man of cheating even if you didn't have any proof.
Other times, it may have hit you like a ton of bricks coming out of nowhere.
Worse yet, you may have come home one day unexpectedly and caught your man red-handed with another woman in your bed.
In any case, you've made the decision to move on because you know you deserve better.
This article explores 3 tips to help you move on after a man cheats on you so you can find a man who truly loves you and can't live without you.
Don't Seek Revenge After a man cheats on you, your first reaction may be to seek revenge.
For example, you might feel like spreading rumors about him or telling other people intimate details about him that he told to you in confidence.
Alternatively, you might feel like running your key along the side of his car or destroying and/or throwing out some of his possessions.
Remember that seeking revenge on the man who cheated on you simply lowers you to his level.
In the end, it makes you look worse.
If you want to come out on top, then it's important to move on with feminine grace.
Don't Blame Yourself Being cheated on is never your fault so don't blame yourself.
Your man may try to turn it on you and make you feel guilty.
However, if a man cheats on you, he CHOOSES to cheat on you.
No one forces him to.
Even if you feel like you did something to upset him, it doesn't give him the right to cheat.
If you start to blame yourself, then it can greatly affect your self-esteem.
It can cause you to start feeling like you aren't worthy of love and that no man will ever love you.
Hold your head high knowing you don't need a man in your life to be happy and you're better off being alone than being with someone who cheats.
Don't Hold It Against A New Man If you want to find a man who truly loves you and can't live without you, then it's important not to hold on to past relationships.
When a man cheats on you, it can cause you to no longer trust any man.
However, this can be extremely counterproductive and can ruin future relationships.
Just because someone has cheated on you in the past doesn't mean the next man you date will do the same thing.
You need to learn to trust every man until he gives you reason not to.
You will quickly drive good men away if you are unable to trust them or if you allow the way you were treated in the past to interfere with your current relationships.