If you need to get your ex back, then you need to remember to be solid and smooth.
Don't act overly interested or you may be defeating your own purposes.
Your ex wants to see that you are strong - that you are in control of your emotions and can be counted on for the long run.
Right? Of course.
If your ex is trying to flirt with you here and there, then that is probably a good sign.
It can also be a test though to see if you jump in an overly zealous fashion.
The fact is that everyone, yourself included, needs to be shown that a person's interest in you is more than just an emotional response to loneliness or worry - or even horniness.
There are some signs that definitely mean that your ex wants to get back with you, but you have to always appear in control - even and especially if you feel like a mess inside.
Play a little hard to get.
Do not act overly-concerned - like a schoolboy in lust.
Stand back and take your time.
The fact is that you have already split up for one or more reasons.
So, now is the time to take it slow and make sure that any possible reunion is going to be a solid decision for both of you.
Of course, your ex misses you too.
Don't ever think that after all of that time together, he or she can just turn you off and place you out of his or her mind.
It just doesn't happen that way - unless you did something severely atrocious.
The fact is that most people believe in second chances and knowing that, and appreciating that, can put you in a great position to get your ex back.
Don't just say, "I want my ex back" and then leave it to chance.
Take action and develop an intelligent, well-thought plan of action.
No matter how dreary it all may seem; no matter what thoughts are going through your head; no matter even if you KNOW that he or she is seeing other people - if you truly desire to get back with your ex, then you are going to have to be smooth.
Remember that whatever feelings and thoughts are going through your mind - they are probably going through your ex's too.
Use that to your advantage.
Now is the time to develop your strength and resolve.
Now is the time to become the person that you desire to be and then show your ex exactly what he or she is missing.
Going slow is the best way to assure that you create the best result for your disheartening situation.
Plan every move.
Plan every word.
Take your time and never appear too interested.
It may seem strange, but people are often driven away from others that seem too interested in them.
The fact is that your ex probably wants you to be more interested in yourself - at least for now.
Taking your time also will allow you to assimilate your emotions as they arise and stop you from getting blasted with hurt again.
There are ways to assure that you will get your ex back.
There are proven psychological techniques that work like magic.
You can learn them and stop your misery today.