How to Keep Life and Love in Your Relationship Part 2

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Illusion of Love

“Love is mystical togetherness. It is a whimsical playfulness that invigorates you. Love is comfort. When you’re in love you experience a romantic clam and a tenderness that makes you lightheaded. Love is also tortures that you tolerate because each time you’re around the person you’re in love with, you learn something refreshing sweet or something funny, that makes you smile and keeps you happy.” A Woman in Love

The Beauty Of A Woman

The beauty of a woman is not the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, however, true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows, the beauty of a woman with passing years only grows. By a Woman

A Woman’s Expression Of an Ideal Male

The strength of a man isn’t seen in the width of his shoulders. It is in the width of his arms that encircle me.

The strength of a man isn’t in the deep tone of his voice. It is in the gentle words he whispers.

The strength of a man isn’t how many buddies he has. It’s how good of a buddy he is to his children.

The strength of a man isn’t in how hard he hits. It is in how tender he touches.

The strength of a man isn’t the hair on his chest or balls. It is in his heart that lies within his chest that beats.

The strength of a man is not how many women he can love at once. It’s love and honesty that he can bring and be true to one woman like me.

“Love brings out the best in a person; positivity, acceptance, creativity and joy. Love also makes reckless fools out of responsible people. When you’re in love, you learn, you give, you share and you grow, while simultaneously experiencing headaches, annoyances and grief. A man in love stops functioning as an individual, the woman he loves becomes an extension of him. He is over come by an unshakeable twoness and there is no protection. Love is been aware and responding to the need of the other.” A Man in Love

Love Illusions

Most of us who hear the words true love quickly conjure up our stored away, but always handy, image of our union to our made-for-us mate. Almost always we envision an intriguing oasis of predestined passion somewhere out there just waiting for us to find it. This illusion of love is very common.

You can test your susceptibility to this love trap by asking yourself if when you meet a new man you expect a sign-fireworks, sparks, electricity-to let you know this is the one. If you test positive to this illusion, get used to being disappointed. If you’ve managed to avoid this trap, count your blessings. But you’re not out of the woods yet. You may have fallen victim to the equally renowned and just as romantically fatal love-at-first-sight trap.

For most of us feeling good about a relationship is not good enough. Before we’re willing to proclaim we’re in love, we need the additional evidence of having been struck by lightening or dumbfounded by magic the first time we saw a potential mate.

Neither lightning nor magic has anything to do with loving relationships. It’s hard work, compromise and commitment that makes or break loving relationships. And for your efforts, you’re rewarded with real love and real intimacy, not illusions.

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