For those women out there that have mastered the art of talking dirty, I don't need to tell you about the true power of words and how you can make him melt within seconds.
The first thing you need to know is that you don't have to feel self conscious or nervous when starting out.
Trust me, your man will love it no matter how bad you might be when starting out.
The key whether you are a beginner or someone who has thrown around a couple of sizzling lines is that you need to deliver dirty talk with absolute confidence.
Make no mistake, confidence really is a deadly weapon and can leave your guy begging you for more.
There are a couple of things you need to consider when starting out.
First, you should not leave the dirty talk confined to the bedroom or face to face contact.
One of the easiest ways for beginners to start is to send naughty text messages.
The key to delivering mind blowing dirty talk is to understand when to be assertive and when to be more submissive.
These two methods will allow you to play the naughty little girl who won't take no for an answer or a much more submissive role that will leave him feeling in power and control.
Stroking your guys ego is a sure fire way to make him feel like a stud.
Making his mind race and getting his imagination firing is what you need to aim for.
You can send him naughty text messages while he is at work or out with his friends telling him about all the things you want to do to him or what you want him to do with you.
Imagination is the key to making him weak at the knees and drooling like a little puppy dog.
Whether you go with the submissive approach or the much more assertive approach you need to be confident in yourself and what you are saying.
Nothing will turn him off more than hearing you say things for the sake of saying it.
If you are NOT comfortable with what you want to say then don't say it.
You don't need to go from 0-100 in two seconds flat like you may have seen in adult movies.
Being subtle and discreet can make him excited below the equator and get his mind racing.
A good example of this is whispering something in his ear when you are out in public or out to dinner.
You could also mime something across the room to get his heart racing.
If you want to send naught text messages and emails you need to be as descriptive as possible to let his imagination go wild.
The fact is that both men and women can get just as turn on mentally than the physical attraction between the sheets.
If you are face to face then you can whisper something in his ear or demand it (assertive approach) and look straight into his eyes and allow them to do ALL the talking.
Giving him "that look" while talking naughty will get his heart racing! If you are in the bedroom just go with it, don't get too hung up on what you are going to say, if you do it can look and sound very unnatural and really mess up the "groove".
Understanding what your guy likes having done to him or what he loves doing to you really is the key.
If you are not sure then just take it slow and tone it down and up the ante when you sense you are pushing his buttons.
It is important to know how to change gears in different situations and knowing when to tone it up and done and mix it up.
This will come in time, there is no need to stress about it or over think it.
Play it by ear! How your guy responds will speak volumes and let you know if you are hitting the target.
Don't stress about it! Chances are nothing you will say will turn off your guy! Guys love women that know how to talk dirty even if they are not experts! It doesn't take long to hit your stride and have your man beg you for more dirty talk in and out of the bedroom!