I mean, yes we had a break up but is that reason enough for them not to return our phone calls? Stop fuming at the blatant disregard because I present you with some unbeatable methods of making your ex start taking note of you again.
Create the time and space for yourself: You could never think of your life moving on without your ex.
And now that he has left, you feel there is an empty chasm you can't fill up.
Difficult as it may be, you can still use this isolation to uncover your hidden worth.
Redefine your merits.
Shutting yourself up is not a solution, so interact with kith and kin as much as you can.
You will be surprised at how energizing these diversions prove to be.
They make you look at facets in a way you never thought possible.
No desperate measures: Never intrude into your ex's privacy especially if he strongly resents it.
Bugging him is an absolute no-no.
And flooding him with a deluge of text messages is not even a option.
Chances are they will be stashed away as Spam anyways.
Best practice is to begin with one getting back message, but not before your break has seen a week or two.
Short and sweet conversations: In case you do have lady luck smiling, and your ex answering your calls, do not nag about getting back.
Instead remain composed and let him know you have dealt with the situation in a practical way.
Strike up a discussion that is unrelated and pretty soon you have your ex listening; and if I may add, contributing to the exchanges as well.
Just stick on, and let your ex rediscover who you really are, or have become for them.