Even though there are a lot of stigmas about the "type" of relationship you can find there, but because the variety is enormous, and the aura is very inviting, there is no reason that you will leave the club alone.
So why still people keep coming back from there, night after night, with the friends they brought with them? because sadly, most of us do not know how to read the map correctly.
How a typical club does looks like? Dark, loud, full, and generally confusing...
of course it was all supposed to be like that in the first place.
When we enter a club, it seems like everyone is having fun, everyone know each other, and just us feeling are totally out.
The reality is totally differ-if you entered a club and knew only one person in there, you would probably know 100% more people then the most of the club.
Next time you are in a club, look what really happens there.
There will be an isolated group of man, an isolated group of women, and a few couples that surely been together before, and came together.
So how do couples get together in clubs then? Usually, and without generalizing, with a little help of alcohol.
Of course this help, like anything else, is not free...
and I am not only talking about those 10 dollars they will take from you for every drop.
It's true that alcohol always helps to get loose, become friendlier, and break fears, but parallel it also dim your senses, exhausting, and prevents you from having the other fun part of the party.
Also, in cases you do succeed getting a nice partner thanks to the drink, in the next morning they may be a little different, and you might be very sorry about what happened...
For really enjoying, and getting yourself someone without no other help, you need to get a "little celebrity" reputation.
Which means- be a person that everyone will know, everyone will want to be next to him, and everyone will want to get back home with him...
So how do you do that without making a fool out of yourself in a reality show? It does indeed requires some work, and being ready to get really friendly, meet, know, and talk to people.
In one's eyes it is a pure pleasure, and after the first "fire-test" it is allot simpler then it looks: 1.
First of all don't go to a club with friends that is not going for having fun.
If they're energy's will be low, it will effect you, so leave them at home.
You arrive to a club early when the energy's at the spot are still low, there are a few pluses in that...
The main one is that you will have a chance to speak with as more as people before the place starts to get crowded.
Remember we said no one knows each other? It is enough that you will create 4-5 familiar faces that you can dance with, or just go next to them and get a smile, and you're already on the road.
Get to know the club's staff, say hello to the security guard, "high-five" the barman, ask the waitress who's the DJ tonight...
those guy's are working hard, and will be happy to talk to you.
And who knows, maybe on day they will Enter you inside without waiting in line.
Start going from group to group (as the party starts) and search for the one with the most positive energy's.
Mostly it is going to be a group of friends that went out to celebrate someone's birthday, and the aura is very positive, so you won't have any trouble mingling with them a little.
Search for those groups all around the club, stay a few minutes with one Group and then take the energy's you gained and move to another group.
With no doubt, everyone will be happy to join you to their group.
It's important that for every corner you'll go to, someone will say "Hi" to you.
In this stage, not only one third of the club knows you personally (and the others must notice you, and ask who you are, and what are you...
) Except that from the beginning of the evening, you charged yourself with positive energy's, also your mood is sky-high! And who can so no to you when you're in such a mood? And the things left to do: To go to a girl that you like, and say "you know I talked with half of the club here, and only you I didn't have a chance to meet, I'm X and who you are?" and yes, in a lot of cases it's that simple.
Normally it probably won't work that easily, but remember that tonight for her you are on a celebrity norm, and even if she doesn't know you, she definitely knows about your existence.