Of course you don't want to come off needy and desperate begging your ex to come back to you, you may be asking yourself "How can I make my ex want me back?" Well the good news is that there are things that you can do that will make your ex want you back, and the great news is that you don't even have to say a single word to them.
When you are looking at how to make your ex to want you back, you really should have as little actual contact with them to begin with, for at least the first month directly following the break up.
No calls on the phone, no texts, no emails, and certainly no hanging around the places you know that they will be, for a "chance" encounter.
Of course if your situation is one that requires communication with one another (work together, have children together), otherwise there should be zip, nada, zilch.
Backing off and giving your ex space is once of the most productive things that you can do right now.
The reasoning behind this is simple.
Right now you both are angry and upset with each other.
When you are upset with someone, do you want them calling and harassing you? Heck no, you want your space and not have to deal with them until things have cooled off a bit.
Another great reason for having this time to yourself is because by not being around your ex, after a bit of time your ex will start to miss you, believe it or not.
It's natural, you were a part of their life and you always will be.
Maintaining your image is the second most important thing for you to do when looking for a way to make your ex want you back.
It may seem sort of maniacal, but by looking truly breathtaking and acting like you are having the time of your life is a sure fire way to be on your ex's mind.
Even if you aren't a perfect 10, everyone has a certain style that will work.
Simply work with what you have and you will be fine.
This may seem like your fighting some sort of psychological war with your ex, and in a sense you are.
If your ex misses you and sees that you are doing great on your own, it may sound odd, but they will want you even more.
Often times this can be enough to make your ex want you back, and if not at least it may get your ex to be more open to being approached once your month of no contact is over.