It is easy to counsel for relationships, because trust me, all suggestions and advice is simply easier said than done.
How much ever advice you take from anywhere, always bear in mind to customize that idea or advice before implementation.
It is a fact that your relationship is much different than what some other person thinks it is.
Here are some basic points you keep in mind 1.
Never run behind lost love, it moves away from you.
There are a lot of times, people run and chase their ex boyfriend and girlfriend thinking they will come back.
But they do not understand that such desperate measures are perhaps not understood and often misunderstood.
So remain calm and do not chase your lost love.
This also includes with regard to phone calls and text messages as well.
Remain your cool and try to divert your attention to something else that you think is more important, like for instance your career, your job, your family, etc.
When you begin to start thinking about something else so seriously, your ex is sure to get a little curious and yes, a little jealous too.
do not bear in mind what you ex will be thinking, just be yourself and focus your attention on something else more important to you.
You can also build interest towards some hobby, join a social club and get completely involved there, or just hang out with a new set of friends and basically revamp your social image totally.
Build your personality.
This is yet another important thing you have got to do.
What happens is that at this stage, people lose their self esteem, breakdown, have false thoughts and beliefs.
What I suggest is that you get your mind out all that unwanted thoughts and get it into building your personality, by focusing on your strengths and also your weaknesses to some extent to see to it that you grow out of them.
This also gives you a higher scope of your ex, coming back, because there are high possibilities that they get attracted to you once again.