It has been a very terrible experience for you.
You are always seeking for solution to tackle the problem, but nothing seems to be working at the moment.
Divorce has looked more likely, but you want to give the relationship the attention it deserves.
You want to stop the relationship from getting to that point.
There are things you can do to avoid divorce and make your relationship work again.
First, you have to be realistic.
You must accept the fact that even though you work hard to see things work well again in your relationship, you may not be able to.
You have to mentally prepare yourself and be ready for any eventuality.
There are people and organizations that are well experienced and trained specially to handle such cases.
They handle cases like infidelity between spouses, heartbreak or any other thing that causes divorce in marriages and break ups in relationships.
Before you see a divorce lawyer, there are many good choices to get relationship advice that are not necessarily expensive.
Endeavor not to argue with your partner, because it can only make situations worse.
If you are bent on stopping the divorce, you must be ready to fight your separation and not your spouse.
Arguing with them will only chase them away from you and convince them that they are right by dumping you.
Do not try to tell them how wrong he/she was or how innocent you are.
Even though you are not at fault in any way, you must be willing to take the blame.
He/she said the fault is yours.
Accept it! This will make them feel right about themselves and make them see that you are willing to do what you want them to do.
Do you want them to be sincere? You must be sincere too! If you want them to be faithful, then you must be faithful as well.
If you are willing to accept what they say, then they will be open to listen to whatever you have to say.
Marriage counseling or therapy are always there at you beck and call, to help you to understand how to communicate well to avoid divorce.
This is one of the many things you must do to stop your divorce, or correct the problems they get to the point of divorce.
You must be ready to work very hard to achieve your aim of stopping your divorce.