Don't be afraid to acknowledge that an affair has occurred.
Bring everything to the table with open and honest communication.
Express how you feel and seek answer to all your questions.
Avoid interruption in order to fully understand what your cheatingpartner is saying and listen with open mind instead of defensiveness.
It is very easy to turn an honest conversation into an endless fight.
The next step to success is to understand how committed you are to savingyour marriage.
Saving a marriage is very different from dragging both of you into an unhappy future.
The cheating partner will also have to be willing to make things work.
Healing and moving on can take time and a lot of hard work.
Couples need to be prepared and on the same pace for things to get better.
It is also important to find out what is the meaning of healthy relationship to you and your partner.
Discuss detailsand make sure to tell him/herhow you would like to be treated and what makes you feelloved and appreciated.
Listen carefully to your cheating partner's ideals to avoid falling into the same cheating situation again.
Once the damage is done, it is basically a question of honesty and communication.
We frequently linger on the past when the crucial part of rebuilding a relationship depends on how focused we are on the present and how much effort are we willing to put into reconnecting and rebuilding.
To forgive a cheating partner is hard so give yourself plenty of time and be prepared to take some steps back before you can move forward.