Scientific, Clinical Methods Vs Natural, Homemade Methods At Home: If you can afford it, you can go to a gender selection clinic for PGD (preimplantation genetic diagnosis) or embryo screening in a sterile, clinical environment. This will likely most definitely get you a girl as the lab will identify the gender of your embryos and implant only girls. However, this costs thousands of dollars. Few people can justify this in today's economy. However, if money is not an issue, this is a way to get 100% guaranteed results. The only way that this can go wrong is if the lab messes up or if the implantation doesn't result in a live birth.
However, if this is out of reach, there are some things that you can do at home to get similar results. You aren't able to actually see, determine, or chose the embryo that ends up in your womb, but you can naturally weed out the boy sperm to ensure that mostly girl sperm are present when conception occurs. I'll outline how to do this below.
Getting Rid Of The Boy Sperm That Could Produce A Son When You Want A Daughter: Your husband's sperm contains X and Y chromosomes. You contribute only Y to the equation. If a Y sperm fertilizes an egg, the result is giving birth to a son. This is obviously not what you want. What you want is for the X sperm to be the first place winner. But, these sperm are the slowest of the two. So, the only sure way to ensure the scenario that you want is to eliminate as many Y's as you possibly can. Your perfect scenario is a reproductive tract that has nothing by X's. This way, not matter which one wins, you'll have a girl conception as there is no other possibility.
The bad news is that the Y sperm is fast. The good news is that it's weak and short lived. As nasty as it sounds, you must exploit this weakness as much as you can. There are three ways to do this.
The Three Ways To Greatly Increase Your Chances Of Conceiving A Girl Baby: The first thing that you can do is find out when you ovulate. This should be one of your first steps. You need to know this because you want to count back from that day to determine your conception day. You want to start early because boy sperm can't live for more than a few days. So, if you conceive 3-4 days prior to when actual ovulation occurs, you've already made a bold step in weeding out a lot of the males. All but the very strongest will begin to weaken after a few days. (Use a very reliable ovulation predictor so you aren't guessing.)
But, you will likely still have some boy producing sperm left. So, how do we get rid of the remainder? We give them an acidic environment to weed and struggle through. This will further weaken the remaining as this is ultimately a hostile (and sometimes deadly) environment. But how do you give them a high PH? You become more acidic. You can do this through what you eat (and you want to eat acidic foods) and what you avoid (alkaline foods.) You can also do this through douching, but often vinegar just doesn't do it as well as you may think.
If you doubt this, you can test my theory by getting PH testing strips. Take your reading and then try a high PH diet and / or douching. Come back and test again approximately three days later and see how much this has changed. You can also use this method to pinpoint which method is working best for you and to determine when you are high enough to conceive a female baby.
Finally, the intercourse positions that you use can help too. Shallow penetration will make it harder on the Ys, which is ultimately exactly what you want.
Conceive A Girl is a website I put together to offer step by step instructions, hints, tips, and resources for couples wishing to conceive a baby girl. You'll find resources for douche recipes and food lists, as well as ovulation predictors and PH test strips. Take a look if you like at http://conceive-a-girl-baby.com/