Many people leave loose ends and come back trying to re-unite with their Ex and wonder why things go awry then.
The secret to really keeping your ex, and getting him or her back involved tying up your own loose ends and getting your act together.
Here is what you can do to ensure that: When it comes to your ex, he or she doesn't just want to hear what you think they want to hear.
They want to see some physical and psychological change from your end.
Apologizing now about everything will not work and will seem cheaply presented.
Consider that you are already broken up, and that your ex needs a serious realization to want you back, therefore, simply apologizing for everything will come across as a desperate solution.
So how do you show serious change? By Showing that you don't need your ex; and can live your life without them.
Proving that you can live your life, especially without your ex, will make your ex beg you to come back to them.
The reason this would be appealing to your ex, is because you are no longer asking approval from your ex in order to change; but rather are doing this on your own.
The best way to show, prove and keep change is to assess on your own, away from the actual issue.
In this case the issue is your ex and the relationship you had.
Using your time away from your ex effectively, after a breakup, is one of the most efficient methods to ensuring your ex will be interested in you again.
Not only this, but another tip is to thank your ex for everything he or she did; and as well to thank them for the breakup.
When you do this, your ex will be thinking to agree with you; and when you can agree with your ex on an emotional level, you renew the connection again; and also make your ex think about his or her motives and reasoning in the breakup.
When you present yourself positively and with gratitude your ex is more likely able to want to start afresh than if you presented yourself with just arguments and disagreements.