Here are some tips that you need if you want to get her to love you:
1. Attraction has to be a part of the equation.
Time and time again, guys end up being nothing more than a friend because they focus on everything but attraction. They try hard to make her feel like they are a great guy, but they don't actually make her feel that powerful attraction that has to be there in order for love to blossom. Don't try so hard to convince her to like you, instead, focus on making her feel attracted to you.
2. You need to show a woman that you have more than one side.
Being too serious can be a bad thing, but so can being too much of a goof. If you want to make her think of you as more than just a friend, you need to show her that you have more than one side. Don't be afraid to show her that you can have fun, that you can be serious, and that you can also be sexy and spontaneous. The more sides of yourself that you can show her, the better. Just be sure to keep the "negatives" to a minimum.
3. You have to be able to engage her through more than just conversation.
Love is a very emotional thing, and if all you do is focus on conversation with a woman, then you are not hitting on the right emotions. Use your body language, use your eyes to make her feel a connection with you. When you communicate with her with more than just words, then you can create a connection on another level, and that can lead to her feeling as though she is falling in love with YOU.