Were you too smothering? Were you too pushy? Always keep in mind, simply it does take two to tango.
Maybe you broke up from outside influences or maybe another girl? What really matters here is that you figure out what went wrong.
If you can understand where things stand now, you will have a much greater chance of success to get your ex back.
Desire The Same Thing In the case of an ex boyfriend that you want to be with again, you have to learn how to get him to desire the same thing.
You have to be diligent, inventive and most important, you really have to understand what it is that will make him yearn to be with you once again One way is to become active in your boyfriends favorite activities.
Another is to show that you are not totally dependent on him.
Begin a Conversation Open up a conversation with him, but keep it light and about nothing important.
When you do converse with him make sure that you keep your emotions in check.
At least until you are off the phone or away from him.
One part of this strategy is to let him know that he is really better off with you.
Employ His Family and Friends Employ his family in your endeavor to get your ex back.
If his family and friends like you then maybe you can enlist them to help.
For instance they could invite you to a barbeque.
Maybe a family function such as a birthday or anniversary.
In these functions it is important not to focus on him but the activities at hand.
Hang around the members of his family or friends that you really enjoy.
Do not though, ignore him altogether.
Although this is a fine line, let him know you are there without being in his face.
Again keeping the emotions out of the picture.
Put these crucial strategies to work today and it might just help to get your ex boyfriend back.