Never part on bad terms
The one thing you shouldn't do during breakups is to finish the relationship badly. It is tricky to remain civil when emotions are flaring. Irrespective of how loony or hurt you are part amicably. If you need your past love back, you stand an improved chance of achieving this if you used to be a man during the breakup. Whatever the reason why the relationship finished, you would like the door to a reunion to stay open.
Give your ex girlfriend space
You do not need to appear desperate which is the reason why you should give your past love the space she has requested. Performing desperate measures won't work and regardless of whether they do work, they are only short lived. Nobody wants to be with someone who begs and begs. Give her space but keep your pride untouched. It is OK to need to beg and plead but don't do it.
Don't flood her e-mail mail box, phone or her home telephone with messages. Don't drop by her home for a visit and forget going to places the two of you use to frequent together. This is only inviting discomfort and suffering on your side. Can you imagine showing up to a club you and your ex frequented only to view her with somebody else? Don't invite that sort of pain into your life. Permit her to do what she would like, when she wants and you will find that at last, she'll start contacting you, regardless of if only wanting to be friends.
Giving the love of your life, the space required enables her to think. You want her mind to start wondering about where you are and whom you might possibly be with. If she contacts you, be mannered and kind. Kindness is always appreciated and when she calls or contacts you, this is showing interest in what you are doing.
Be confident not pitiful
Women love confident men. When your ex contacts you, do not tell her your crying spells or how forsaken you are. If she asks how you are doing, inform her you do great and keep it short. Confidence is great but do not overdo it. Do not inform your ex how many dates you have been on, in reality do not tell her anything. Be evasive while showing kindness and this may drive her mad with not knowing what you have been up to.
Show her you have changed for the better
Some people will state that a tiger never loses their stripes. I don't believe in this analogy because people can change. These changes don't occur over night however , with commitment and pride , folk can turn their lives around. It would not hurt to show your old girlfriend that person that she feel in love with. Show her the new "you" but don't deter away from the qualities that she adored about you in the first place. The easiest way in how it is possible to get your ex-girlfriend back is to simply love her for who she's while loving yourself enough to switch what's bad inside you.