You may still be in love with your wife, husband, fiancee or fiance, but you may start to feel some change in them. Your spouse becomes cool and indifferent towards you, and you have no clue why.
Now you might start to wonder if your spouse is cheating on you, but you can't ask them directly, because you don't know for sure. Confronting them directly with your suspicions might cause quite a stir, because there might be a perfectly normal explanation to their different behavior.
But don't rush into saying or doing anything that you shouldn't, before you have read about the 4 things that cheating spouses have in common.
1. Secretive cell phone behavior. Your partner leaves the room to talk in private, and doesn't want you nearby. Maybe you will even discover that all text message and call details have been deleted.
2. Smells from an aftershave or perfume you don't know. Does this ring a bell? Maybe your partner has become more conscious about their looks all of a sudden, and that can be a definite sign that something is going on behind the scenes.
3. Various excuses for leaving the house all the time. Frequent "business trips", working late all the time, and endless meetings, or meeting some friends you have never heard of.
4. Sudden need for privacy in front of the computer. Their internet history constantly being erased, suspicious behavior when checking email and during online chatting, and even sudden password protection.
Here above are only a fraction of examples, there are lots of more signs of infidelity. But the thing is, that even though your gut feeling tells you that your spouse is having an affair with someone else, you can't accuse them without solid proofs. But please think about yourself and your own wellbeing. Suspecting, but not knowing the truth just eats you up from within.
So how can you catch an unfaithful partner?
Unless you are willing to hear a bunch of lies, don't confront them without proofs of their infidelity. Prepare yourself thoroughly with all the necessary evidence before you confront them.
You could hire an expensive private investigator, or you yourself could learn the secrets that have been used for decades by private investigators from around the world and have been proven to work, only for a fraction of the cost of hiring a PI!
You have to learn various techniques about how to spy on their online activities, access their phone records, undelete deleted text messages, and how to reverse look up cellphone numbers, these are just a few examples of what you need to do.
It is also extremely important for you to prepare yourself verbally, legally and emotionally before you confront your partner. You have to make sure that all your bases are covered, so that your spouse won't have a chance to lie their way out!