There can be many reasons why couples argument and fight but as a general rule the longer we are together with our other half the easier it is to find fault with them and their behaviour.
To save a marriage requires communication and understanding.
The more familiar we become with someone the easier it is to take them for granted.
If you want to improve the chance of having a long lasting and happy relationship then you should learn and implement the following advice - 1.
Talk: You will not be able to save a marriage unless you can talk openly and without fear of recrimination.
If you keep your angers, worries, and concerns bottled up inside then your partner will not know what has been troubled you and causing you stress and anxiety.
Try to find a time at least once a day when you can sit down and discuss what is on each other's minds.
Activities: Think of how often you and your partner enjoy shared activities together.
Usually when we are dating we are forever going to the cinema or off on some adventure.
After the marriage it is all too easy to fall in to the trap of not doing anything together.
You should spend at least a few hours each week doing an activity that you both enjoy.
Counselling: If all else fails then it may be the time to seek out marriage counselling.
A professional that is trained in relationship problems may help you see the problems from the other person's point of view.
Also as the counselling will occur on neutral territory it can be easier to speak your mind and clear the air.