Everyday, hundreds of thousands of lovers from all over the world reunite and start all over again.
Even people who have been in prison somehow find their back to their lover's arms even after years of being separated.
It's all a matter of how well you apply the tips on how to win back your ex lover that determines your success in this area.
The first thing that you need to realize is that you need some kind of a 'timeout' in order to let lingering emotions like hate and bitterness subside.
After a difficult breakup episode, the emotions are way too high for both of you to handle.
One wrong move and you risk blowing things up at unmanageable levels.
Let time heal the residues of your broken heart.
And by 'time' we don't mean years but rather, just two months at the most.
Taking some time away will help you see things from your lover's perspective and will give you an idea on how to win back your ex lover in a subtle, mature way.
Then when you think you're ready, be creative in thinking of ways to approach him.
Always be yourself when carrying out your plan and make it seem effortless.
Appear normal and happy and unaffected by the whole brouhaha.
When your ex sees you in a much safer, happier place, he will realize what a tool he has been to even think of letting you go.