This article reveals why a woman should join a paid membership site to find Mr.
Choosing the right type of dating site can be the difference between meeting Mr.
Right, or wasting months or even years online with players and men that won't commit.
In fact, if you get the dating site wrong, you may be one of the vast majority of women that leave online dating after only a few short months feeling frustrated and hurt, never finding their compatible partner.
Now you probably already know that online dating websites fall into two general categories: paid membership and free membership.
You've probably heard of some of the most popular paid sites, such as match.
com and eHarmony.
com; and free sites such as plentyoffish.
com and okcupid.
But what you probably don't know is this: when a man makes the decision to pay for membership to a website, when he decides to make a financial commitment to it, he's actually also making an emotional commitment to his search for a relationship.
In other words, paid membership sites attract men serious about finding a partner.
As human beings, we all make decisions on how to spend our hard earned cash - based on our emotional needs.
Whether we're buying new clothes, or house hunting, our emotions are interwoven with our money.
And the same is true when a man makes the decision to pay for membership to a dating website.
When he joins a paid site, he's telling you, "I'm ready to find someone for a relationship.
I'm at the point where I'm willing to pay to find my special someone to start a relationship with.
" Now at this point you may be saying to yourself, "not every man on a paid membership site is looking for a serious relationship.
" Maybe you've met men that weren't looking for commitment, or flat out misrepresented themselves in their dating profiles.
And this does happen, of course.
There are men on paid dating sites that aren't looking for the same depth in a relationship as you are.
But the important thing to remember here is that joining a paid membership site avoids the men that became members of free sites simply because they weren't willing to make an investment in their search for a partner.
And where there's no investment, you greatly reduce the chances of a finding a man seeking emotional commitment.
Paid membership sites attract men who have an emotional commitment to their search for a long term companion.
Keep this in mind as you navigate the world of online dating in your search for Mr.