All relationships require commitment compromise and a good amount of self sacrifice.
Take a few days and think over the past six months to a year, and be brutally honest with yourself.
Have you been the easiest person to be with, have you listened really hard to your partner's desires and needs? Have you shown the flexibility and love that any relationship needs to survive? It is never easy to restart a romance but following the simple advice here will give anyone who takes it a great advantage, and will help keep you positive and strong.
Do you know the reason for the split? Were you dumped? If he left you there were only four possible reasons.
1- You were unfaithful and he found out.
2- He was unfaithful and decided to leave.
3- You smothered him with your need to be with him and control him at all times.
4- You did not commit enough of yourself to the relationship and left him feeling unwanted and unloved.
If it was number two and he has left you for another, then your best hope lies in PATIENCE! Wait, do not be acrimonious or vindictive, just be as pleasant and as forgiving (as much as possible) as you can.
Remarkably men will return ninety percent of the time to their girlfriend or wife.
If it was one of the other three, you have the power to change the behaviour that drove him from you in the first place.
You need time for a bit of self reflection and introspection.
Take a really hard look at yourself and your situation.
Figure out where it started to go wrong and identify if you did anything that could have contributed to the break up.
You can exclude anything that was beyond your control, and focus on your contribution.
Now once you have identified the areas that need changing you must be willing and want to make the changes wholeheartedly.
The desire to get back with your boyfriend and the willingness to make changes wont be enough in themselves unless you take action right now! It is actually much easier to speak to real people who have been there and done that, than to a pay a specialist to give you canned information about making relationships work.
Instead, it would be good for you to talk to people who have been there and survived the process of getting their ex partner back.