Most people do a lot of preparations before this meeting.
The first meeting lays the foundation of the future sexual relations.
It is supposed to be the most important event in the life of the newly couple.
First night experience is more important for woman than for the man.
The man should initiate his wife into sex gently.
The man should keep himself under control during the foreplay before first sexual union.
The prelude, with all its tender affection and admiration, kisses, embraces, gentle caresses should be given the major importance.
No woman expects to remove all her clothes on first night.
Every woman is not so shy and chaste.
At first night, try to be natural.
Talk about her hobbies, interest and acquaint each other with your family details.
Never rush to accomplish the marriage by physical and advances with all its tender affection and admiration, embraces, kisses, gentle caresses should be given the admiration by kissing that part.
The women open up very gradually.
The man should be sensitive enough to judge his wife reaction by her facial expression and gestures.
Steadily arouse her sexual feelings to move towards the desired goal.
The first most important work is the defloration or the rupture of the hymen.
This is located at the opening to the vagina.
Hymen makes the boundary between the external and part of the genitals which develop from the skin and the internal structures of the sexual reproductive system.
In some women the hymen may be more or less retained as a perforated, soft sheet of the skin, in some women this tissue present during infancy seems to dissolve with growth, so that only slight remnants are seen as soft tags around the vaginal entrance.
In some cases the hymen is usually thick or strong.
Forceful entry of a penis will overcome the obstruction.
Though the women may feel some discomfort.
Sometimes, the pain caused by hymen rupture obstruct with the enjoyment of first coitus.
But this pain and discomfort will not last longer.
The emotional meeting and knowing of each other is far more important for a long loving relationship.
Keep in mind your care and affection last much longer in the memories of your wife than any other things.
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